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#209150 - 12/18/06 04:48 PM
Re: You are a satanist, but your husband/wife is not
[Re: Rory_Rocketpants]
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#209153 - 12/19/06 04:44 PM
Re: You are a satanist, but your husband/wife is not
[Re: SadisticRage]
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Registered: 07/01/01
Posts: 1850
Loc: Long Island
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Does anyone else have the problem of being a satanist but your spouse is not.
Do I have this problem? No.
Am I a Satanist that is married to a woman that it not? Yes.
If you are open and honest in your relationship, there should be no problem.
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#209156 - 12/19/06 05:50 PM
Re: You are a satanist, but your husband/wife is not
[Re: tekku]
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Registered: 12/16/06
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I wasnt going to post anything yet but, in some cases a person is married, years before they ever even know satanism exists. in that case, if you decide on a particular religion(any religion) and if your the kind of person who would only marry someone of the same religion,(if you decide to get married at all.) for religious reasons. then you would have quite a struggle with that. I do not personally have that problem. in any case, I dont think the Church of Satan encourages marriage to begin with.Im not married. I have no desire to get married.
Edited by 9076 (12/19/06 05:53 PM)
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#209158 - 12/19/06 06:00 PM
Re: You are a satanist, but your husband/wife is not
[Re: Poetaster]
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Registered: 12/16/06
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It said somewhere that it only does so occassionally , and the satanic bible says, "with much reluctance".plus dont forget it says they are sorry every sunday that they lusted after others. I would rather be the "others" being lusted after, than the one apologized too.  I think.
Edited by 9076 (12/19/06 06:05 PM)
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#209159 - 12/19/06 06:09 PM
Re: You are a satanist, but your husband/wife is not
[Re: 9076]
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Registered: 07/24/06
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Loc: Behind You
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You make in interesting point, however it really does come down to each to their own in this case.
As I had stated, my view pertains to myself only and I do think that for someone who IS a Satanist and enters a relationship on false grounds by hiding that aspect of themselves, is already setting themselves up for a fall, especially if their partner is closed minded.
For those that realise down the track that they are Satanists, then I think thats where the lines of communication, love and understanding between you and your partner get tested, especially if your partner is a devout Xtian or some other denomination the believes in a deity.
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#209162 - 12/19/06 08:10 PM
Re: You are a satanist, but your husband/wife is not
[Re: SadisticRage]
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Registered: 07/06/04
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I am a Satanist, and my fiance' is not. In fact she was raised strict Jehovah's Witness but no longer is a part of that religion. She doesn't quite understand Satanism, but tries and is very supportive of me. Here's the deal, we talked about this before we proceeded with the relationship. I told her that I am a Satanist and will not change. She appreciated my honesty and has never once tried to get me to change. I understand that she is not a Satanist and never will be but that's fine. The important thing is that we get along great, sure we have our problems as any couple does but we know how to work it out, beyond that our personal beliefs are in fact irrelevant. If anyone is in a relationship to try and change someone then they are in that relationship for all the WRONG reasons.Good luck!
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