#212942 - 01/04/07 09:10 AM
Re: Sex Questions
[Re: buzzoff]
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Loc: Denmark
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it would hurt her a great deal and me as well.
You got the answer right there, so what's your problem? - If it's gonna hurt you, and her, then it would be very destructive and stupid to do anything, unless you want to end the relationship?!
If you want to end the relationship then tell her before you start to sleep with others, respect her and yourself that much.
I can only speak for myself now, If I'm in a relationship and start to think about having sex with others then I know it's time for me to leave that relationship.
Right now I prefer to be single and free, because that way I don't hurt anybody, at least not consciously.
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#212943 - 01/04/07 09:58 AM
Re: Sex Questions
[Re: Hagen von Tronje]
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Agreed. If you're thinking of lying, it is not love, as I see it. I, for one, have always been honest to the people I care about. As a side note. In this day and age, where decieving and lying seems to be all the rage, I gain so much more by always being totally honest about everything. Oh how the girls love to hear who I did last week end. 
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#212944 - 01/04/07 10:04 AM
Re: Sex Questions
[Re: buzzoff]
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Registered: 03/13/06
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I would advise against it, but at the same time I refuse to be one to tell you how to live your life and to help you make decisions. All I know is that mine is just as jealous as I am, and would likely kill me AND whoever I slept with were I to cheat...
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#212946 - 01/04/07 11:01 AM
Re: Sex Questions
[Re: buzzoff]
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#212947 - 01/04/07 02:04 PM
Re: Sex Questions
[Re: buzzoff]
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Registered: 07/04/01
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I have another question. Realizing that I am a Satanist has been a beautiful revalation to me. I thank "The Doctor." For all that he accomplished. That being said (and since it has nothing to do with my question)...I love my wife very much, but there are times when i wish to have sex with other women. Now, should I go through with this and my wife find out, it would hurt her a great deal and me as well. So, the question is this...should I fulfill my desires and hide it from her, talk to her about extramarital affairs (which would kill the relationship) or, realizing that hurting her hurts me as well (and considering I enjoy masturbation and fantasy as well and she has no problem with this) and not go through with it. Thanks in advance.
Judging by what you wrote, and by experience with men like yourself (married):
My advice, don't do it. Trust me on this one. You can't handle the "guilt." You are already struggling with it.
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#212948 - 01/04/07 02:43 PM
Re: Sex Questions
[Re: gypsy]
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Registered: 11/09/06
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Loc: Sydney, Australia
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You can't handle the "guilt." You are already struggling with it.
This is a extremely good point.
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#212949 - 01/04/07 02:53 PM
Re: Sex Questions
[Re: Quaark]
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#212950 - 01/04/07 02:57 PM
Re: Sex Questions
[Re: Shiva]
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Registered: 03/09/05
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#212951 - 01/04/07 03:48 PM
Re: Sex Questions
[Re: RandomStranger]
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Registered: 04/19/06
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Loc: Alabama
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I appreciate everyone's advice. The only reason I brought this up was that, though I've read TSB more than once, I still, at times, take things out of context. So, as I've read the chapter on Satanic Sex and struggled with what it says, I fail to remember that it would not be advantageous for me to cheat. In other words, though I should do what I can to fulfill all of my sexual desires, I should ALWAYS do the thing that is most advantageous for me, including not hurting my wife (which not only hurts me emotionally as well, but could lead to other unpleasant circumstances). As I said, I love my wife. Period. Which is why the struggle. Again, thanks for the advice.
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#212952 - 01/04/07 04:23 PM
Re: Sex Questions
[Re: RandomStranger]
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#212953 - 01/04/07 04:23 PM
Re: Sex Questions
[Re: buzzoff]
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Registered: 04/16/05
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How do you fail to remember something so instinctual?
If you love your wife and she doesn't want you to cheat then don't cheat. If you have desires for others and it would upset her to mention it, don't mention it.
It's that simple.
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#212954 - 01/04/07 05:57 PM
Re: Sex Questions
[Re: buzzoff]
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Registered: 08/30/06
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Loc: On my grind
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As I said, I love my wife. Period.
Well next time she leaves the house, grab this:
And grab a picture of this:
Then get to work.
Trust me. You wouldn't want to look at another woman other than your wife ever again.
HS! 
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