refuse to let my past dictate my future, and there's nothing you can do about it!
Do you recognize the irony?
You're allowing your past, which I know nothing of and don't care to know, to affect your interactions on this board, apparently because of your anger issues, directed at one person.
You might like to know that I've been solicited by no mysterious parties, on behalf of making you miserable.
I sometimes comment when I shouldn't, but at times I enjoy offering little tidbits of advice, so please don't think of this as an attack on you. Think of it more as a friendly gesture.
Here, have a dancing chili: