I was raised by a family that couldn't afford me. Of course I'll never amount to anything, I cling to this hope of completing my magnetic generator someday but that's really just hoping. If you can't make a meal for your child when he/she comes home from school, then don't have kids. It's not fair on the child or yourself.
A sheep will follow where it's friends go. A wolf will fight along side them.
It is better to be a live wolf than a dead lion, but still better to be a live lion. A man with a gun thinks he's a lion, a man with a knife knows he's a rabbit.
-Robert H. Heinlien