>> after she comes the first time she'll usually talk a bit more so ask her then. <<
After she comes, kick her out of bed and tell her to go and make you a cup of tea.
That is so very funny! If I ever did that, she would want to kick my ass. My girl is a challenging alpha female, in shape, extremely prideful, believes she's the hottest woman in this part of my state, very funny, VERY short temper, vengeful, warrior-like woman. Very attractive and cusses like a sailor. She jokingly degrades everyone all the time too. I find her to be quite a character.