One thing that stood out was the "unconditional love" factor. I put my mind to work and figured out that if you were selfless and "forgave" people who have done you wrong, you're basically laying down and taking it in the ass. You become a slave to them by letting them take advantage of you and use you. I honestly believe this "unconditional love" crap was put in place to brainwash people into letting people have control over them easily.
Judging by what you have posted here, I think you’re going to like Satanic literature a lot. What you just said was very reminiscent of a couple of phrases that you will find in "The Satanic Bible".
And in his book “Bearing The Devil’s Mark”, Magister Matt Paradise has a chapter entitled “Love Is A Many Conditional Thing”; which you might also find interesting.