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#429095 - 08/13/10 02:08 PM Questions regarding Satanism
Lordrandom Offline


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I read the Satanic Bible and I enjoyed the first half of it. I've been thinking of reading the book by the current head of the Church of Satan for a while now and have played with the idea of openly calling myself a Satanist but there are a couple of points which have always stopped me.

1 - Do I need to be vengeful? I know a lot of the philosophy advocates vengence and such on those who deserve it but for the most part I just don't have it in me to do that, sure I get pissed every once in a while but I can't sustain the killer instinct that some of the things advocated by LeVay would require. Should I just give up now?

2 - My fiance is a Christian. While I do not share her faith (obviously or I wouldn't be here) I want to at least give her the respect that comes with a loving relationship. If I were to consider myself a Satanist would I be insulting her? I don't want to commit to a message that says someone I love is an idiot for believing what she believes

those two are the important ones, the next one isn't as important

3 - Do I need to do the magic stuff? Magic has never appealed to me, it is why for the most part I didn't really enjoy the books of Belial and Leviathan (I found the enochian keys kind of boring), I think I am just too literal a person to invest myself in them. Are they are a requirement to consider oneself a Satanist with justification?

I hope I don't come across as judging to those who have sucessfully embraced what I struggle with, and this is my first post so I hope I haven't done anything wrong

Thank you in advance for all help
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#429097 - 08/13/10 02:32 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Lordrandom]
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You'll get some answers from genuine Church of Satan "clergy". I'm not a member of the Priesthood (you'll know them by their titles as "Priest/Priestess" or "Magister/Magistra"), but I can give you some thoughts based on my experiences as a member of the CoS. Take it for what it's worth to you.

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Do I need to be vengeful?

You should be able to stand up for yourself, morally if not physically. But the point of Satanism is to accept yourself as you are. If you are a vindictive person, that's something you should know about yourself and make work for you. But if you aren't, that is also something you should know about yourself, and something that you can make work for you, too, in other ways.

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If I were to consider myself a Satanist would I be insulting her?

You should probably ask her whether she would construe it as an insult. A lot of people here have a lot of baggage from their days dealing with judgmental family members and acquaintances, but there's no Satanic dogma that says Christians or people of other religions are stupid or crazy. Some of us have friends who are Christian or who believe in other accounts of God. We do believe they are wrong, and there could be lots of reasons why they're wrong. But it's up to you to decide whether you can get along with such people, and on what terms.

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Do I need to do the magic stuff?

The main purpose of rituals is, as our High Priest Peter Gilmore has put it, "self-transformational psychodrama". It involves a lot of the same techniques as self-hypnosis, but it's converted into a religious expression. It's a way of cultivating some fantasy in your life, and creating an environment in which you can venerate yourself as a godlike being. Your emotions can be externalized and intensified to the maximum degree, if only for the duration of the ritual. It's a way of getting rid of your hang-ups and inhibitions. That's something Satanism encourages you to try out, at least once. You might be surprised at some of the effects it can have, at least on you. In fact, if you feel like your inhibitions are preventing you from really getting into ritual, that might speak all the more to the potential benefit ritual might have for you.

But to answer your question, it's not mandatory. It's there as a tool for you to try out.


Edited by reprobate (08/13/10 02:33 PM)
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#429098 - 08/13/10 02:44 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Lordrandom]
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Originally Posted By: Lordrandom
1 - Do I need to be vengeful?


You need to be and do whatever allows you to feel like you are living in accordance with your values, your goals, and your true nature, as well as with the laws of the land.

If Satanism dictated that you absolutely had to be vengeful or hateful, it would be just as misguided and wrong in its approach as the religions that absolutely forbid vengeance and hatred, because human beings are complex and variable, and the situations they encounter in life are likewise.

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If I were to consider myself a Satanist would I be insulting her? I don't want to commit to a message that says someone I love is an idiot for believing what she believes


Well, what does she think? Does she, or would she, see Satanism as a personal insult?

And, what do you think? How do you see Satanism in relation to other religions, and do you distinguish between religions and their adherents, or not?

Me, I tend to see my Christian, Pagan, Buddhist, and even my atheist friends as incorrect, myopic, or misguided in some ways, and merely different from me in others. Most importantly, I see us as rather different types of animals, to the point where trying to turn them into Satanists would be like trying to turn rabbits into coyotes.

From there, we all have to make certain concessions or allowances in our relationships, because no relationship is perfect, and the overlap in values and interests will almost never be total and complete.

But, it may be worth mentioning that while I am glad to befriend, work with, or even, schtupp "white-lighters," I do have some reservations about actually dating or marrying one. I think if someone's going to play such an important role and hold such a prominent place in my life, there would definitely need to be a much stronger and larger overlap of worldviews and values. The other person would likely have to be a very unusual and unorthodox kind of Christian, Pagan, Buddhist, or what have you, for the relationship to actually work long-term.
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#429102 - 08/13/10 03:24 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Lordrandom]
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1 - "Need" is a strong word. We do generally advocate aggressive personality types, but how you deal with this is up to you. It's your loss if it works out poorly so of little concern to us.

2 - Make no mistake, Satanism is an anti-Christian religion. Our worldview is very much the opposite of white light religion. Frankly I have a hard time imagining how a Satanist and a Christian who both sincerely believe in their religions could work out; supposedly there are some who have tried it, though I never heard back from them on long term results. In fact it might be telling that everyone I knew who attempted this dropped out of sight some time after.

3 - It is not necessary to practice magic to be a practicing Satanist. What you do in this regard is your own business.
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#429140 - 08/13/10 10:22 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Lordrandom]
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Welcome Lordrandom.

2 - My fiance is a Christian. While I do not share her faith (obviously or I wouldn't be here) I want to at least give her the respect that comes with a loving relationship. If I were to consider myself a Satanist would I be insulting her? I don't want to commit to a message that says someone I love is an idiot for believing what she believes

My personal thoughts regarding having a Christian partner is that when you love someone you are actually loving many aspects of that persons personality which includes their beliefs and philosophy of life. Being in a relationship with someone also means providing support and acceptance of your partners ideals. If your partners ideals and philosophies differ greatly from your own I don't understand how you can do this without contradicting your own philosophies and ideals.

While my background was christian l always had problems with it. After reading TSB l knew l was a Satanist. My husband of 20 years has lived his entire life as an athiest although l don't call him an athiest, he just has no time nor interest in 'believing' in anything, he is too busy living! My point is that my being a Satanist does not conflict with his ideals and life and he is totally supportive and accepts me being a Satanist.
I am not saying that a Satanist cannot have a relationship with a christian, l just can't see how you can live and grow together in a supportive environment.

It is not like supporting different football teams, my husband supports the Aussie rule footy team Carlton who are never as superior in talent and ability as the Western Bulldogs who l support. However we have made that mixed marraige work!!!! grin

Good luck with the answers to your questions.

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#429273 - 08/15/10 06:33 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Lordrandom]
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I cannot think of any higher law than the Law of Self Preservation, and I cannot think of any higher cause than My Own Cause.

Everything I do is calculated to further my own cause and my own self preservation.

Do I need to be vengeful? Maybe, it depends on the situation. I am not limited to acting violently.

Do I follow the laws of my community? Absolutely, because winding up in prison, or having my precious future jeopardized by a criminal record is simply unacceptable to me.

You need to determine it for yourself, but you determine it within the context of pragmatism I think. How will this action I take affect me? If I do this, what could eventuate for me? If I take this step, where will I end up?

It is responsible indulgence, not reckless compulsion.

I cannot disengage Satanism from Greater and Lesser Magic. Dr. LaVey focused on magical practice as an important component of Satanism and I personally agree with him. Magic adds so much to what I think, feel and do.

In regards to magic: let each decide, according to his or her needs.

There’s nothing wrong with judging, it is one of the core tenets of Satanism, at least for me. I wish people generally were more judgemental.

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#429277 - 08/15/10 07:19 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Darkcentre1]
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Originally Posted By: Darkcentre1
I cannot disengage Satanism from Greater and Lesser Magic. Dr. LaVey focused on magical practice as an important component of Satanism and I personally agree with him. Magic adds so much to what I think, feel and do.


Exactly.

Also, one should consider the following quotes from the preface to The Satanic Bible:

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This book was written because, with very few exceptions, every tract and paper, every "secret" grimoire, all the "great works" on the subject of magic, are nothing more than sanctimonious fraud...

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Herein you will find truth—and fantasy. Each is necessary for the other to exist...


If you take all the magic and fantasy out of Satanism is it really Satanism?
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#429293 - 08/15/10 10:35 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: M.D. Roche]
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As was mentioned earlier, it is not necessary to be vengeful or to 'pretend' to be anything you are not to identify yourself as a Satanist.

Survival instinct and righteous indignation - yes, but counterproductive revenge that might land you in jail - hardly..

I've often found subtle manipulation and lesser magic to be of great use when dealing with idiots who threaten my own interests - or simply avoiding becoming entangled with those who waste my time and energy in the first place works even better..!!

Being a Satanist is not about going around trying to make enemies to enact vengeange on..

As to your second point - yeah, good luck with that..! If you do discover that you ARE a Satanist after all, you'll probably want to keep it to yourself around her and avoid any kind of religious debate with her.. Some Satanists (like those of the heirarchy) wear their affiliation on their sleeve as a matter of course, but others prefer to keep the metaphorical black flame that fuels them a secret..

To each his own... (and hey, even if you find out you are NOT a Satanist, at least you can take a few pointers from it that do come naturally and use them to clarify and enrich your, for want of a better phrase, 'life experience').

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#429301 - 08/16/10 12:10 AM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Lordrandom]
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1 - Do I need to be vengeful? I know a lot of the philosophy advocates vengence and such on those who deserve it but for the most part I just don't have it in me to do that, sure I get pissed every once in a while but I can't sustain the killer instinct that some of the things advocated by LeVay would require. Should I just give up now?


It depends on what you mean by the term "vengeful". In order to be vengeful, one must determine how to be vengeful. Violent and criminal acts are obviously not the answer. So how can you be vengeful without sacrificing a portion of yourself in some way?

Ask yourself that when faced with such situations that call for vengeance.

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2 - My fiance is a Christian. While I do not share her faith (obviously or I wouldn't be here) I want to at least give her the respect that comes with a loving relationship. If I were to consider myself a Satanist would I be insulting her? I don't want to commit to a message that says someone I love is an idiot for believing what she believes


There isn't any message proclaiming that any person(s) are intellectualy challenged because of their religion. In my opinion we are anti-spiritual and as far as I'm concerned, some of us may even be misanthropic.

I as a Satanist only judge by the actions, character, and quality of the person(s) in question. Not their religious beliefs. Whatever anyone believes hasn't any validity when compared to their ability or disability to advance in society and achieve upmost self-satisfaction.

That's just my opinion.
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#429334 - 08/16/10 12:14 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: LordofDarkness]
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Originally Posted By: LordOfDarkness
I as a Satanist only judge by the actions, character, and quality of the person(s) in question. Not their religious beliefs. Whatever anyone believes hasn't any validity when compared to their ability or disability to advance in society and achieve upmost self-satisfaction.

That's just my opinion.


I always take a persons religion into account (If I am aware of said religion) and I feel it certainly should be used to judge someone. Religion plays a role in who that person is and what influences them. When judging (or forming an opinion of) someone all aspects should be taken into account.
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#429338 - 08/16/10 12:40 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Lordrandom]
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Originally Posted By: Lordrandom


1 - Do I need to be vengeful? I know a lot of the philosophy advocates vengence and such on those who deserve it but for the most part I just don't have it in me to do that, sure I get pissed every once in a while but I can't sustain the killer instinct that some of the things advocated by LeVay would require. Should I just give up now?


Perhaps if the extent of your emotions only go into "get pissed every once in a while" then you might just be leading a very quiet and uneventful life, or have good luck.

Vengeance should be weighed against the Satanic sin of counterproductive pride. If a waiter shortchanges you or acts rudely you probably don't need to put a curse on the person or make it your life mission to make him/her miserable. Take your business elsewhere and be done with it. The punishment should fit the crime - and you probably have things to do and places to go that are more important smile

One the other hand there are cases where other measures are required, a person intentionally causing you harm for instance could be a candidate for revenge. If, when and how is something that is left up to your own judgment.
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#429339 - 08/16/10 12:41 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Lust]
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Well said.
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#429346 - 08/16/10 01:58 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Lordrandom]
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Originally Posted By: Lordrandom
2 - My fiance is a Christian. While I do not share her faith (obviously or I wouldn't be here) I want to at least give her the respect that comes with a loving relationship. If I were to consider myself a Satanist would I be insulting her? I don't want to commit to a message that says someone I love is an idiot for believing what she believes [emphasis mine]


I don't think anyone here can predict how she'll react; none of us know her and you do. But I'll make one observation; belaboring the obvious somewhat but worth saying. Be sure she's fully informed on exactly what you mean when you call yourself a "Satanist" or "sympathetic to Satanism but not a full-blown Satanist" or whatever you decide you are -- in other words, that she's reacting to you and not to a lot of misinformation some Christians have promulgated about what Satanism is.
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#429348 - 08/16/10 02:32 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Lust]
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Of course when religion influences their thoughts and actions - I agree. But what I was getting at was their basic beliefs.

If a Buddhist can advance in his society, well then that's great. If he can't, then obviously something's wrong.

Regardless of the religion, people still have the ability to achieve self-satisfaction. My grandmother is one of those people. She's a devout christian and lives her life happily with no regrets, no conflict between mind and body, and also possesses a sense of peace. She grew up into christianity and it fits her nature well.

Our nature as Satanists are just different than that of other people. That's why I only judge by said aspects of a person. Aside of that, I agree Tier.


Edited by LordOfDarkness (08/17/10 09:04 AM)
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#429390 - 08/17/10 10:24 AM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Lordrandom]
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Originally Posted By: Lordrandom
1 - Do I need to be vengeful?

There's no point in forcing an emotion that isn't there. It's just that if you do feel wrath against your enemies, you shouldn't have any shame in that or try to rationalize it away. How you choose to let the vengeance manifest itself is another story.

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2 - My fiance is a Christian. [...] I don't want to commit to a message that says someone I love is an idiot for believing what she believes

I have seen some mixed-faith marriages work. However, I always say that if one person sincerely believes that the other is in some kind of danger (metaphysical or otherwise) due to their choice of religion, then it ain't gonna work.

Since he identifies as a Christian, that means he must have some reason for doing so, and so I suspect you DO feel he's stupid, weak, and/or delusional on some level. Though without knowing him, I have no idea of why he takes up the label. Some people are Christians just because it was the religion they were brought up in, haven't looked into anything else, and drag the label with them out of guilty feelings of obligation. Some are myopic Jesus freaks. Some fall somewhere in between.

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3 - Do I need to do the magic stuff?

No, you don't "need" to. As others have said, it's a tool you have at your disposal. However, I have found that people who are quick to dismiss that 2/3 of The Satanic Bible (along with all of The Satanic Rituals) often do so for short-sighted reasons. Some people simply lack the discipline or organizational skills to set up a ritual and enter the temporary "intellectual decompression" state.

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(I found the enochian keys kind of boring)

Um, that's rather like finding a cookbook to be "boring". I don't think you understood what it was about.

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I think I am just too literal a person to invest myself in them.

You're not one of those annoying people who talks through an entire movie, criticizing each scene, are you?
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#429404 - 08/17/10 01:05 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Bill_M]
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Originally Posted By: Bill_M
Some people simply lack the discipline or organizational skills to set up a ritual and enter the temporary "intellectual decompression" state.


Others simply don't enjoy or feel the need to perform a ritual because it feels silly and contrived, and they do just fine without it.
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#429429 - 08/17/10 06:10 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: M.D. Roche]
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Originally Posted By: M.D. Roche
Others simply don't enjoy or feel the need to perform a ritual because it feels silly and contrived, and they do just fine without it.

"Because I'd feel silly" has to be one of the stupidest excuses I ever hear for avoiding ritual, and is good example of the person who, as I said, lack the discipline to get into the intellectual decompression state. There's nothing grand about being compulsively Self-conscious, especially when nobody else is in the room.
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#429438 - 08/17/10 07:03 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Bill_M]
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I always wondered what made people feel silly when by themselves. And then I wonder how they get about to jacking off alone. To me masturbating looks silly as all hell, which is why most people do it alone.

As for making christianity work with Satanism in a relationship. A resounding NO. Not so much on the part of the satanist, but I have yet to meet a christian who is a practicing christian, to embrace a satanist in terms other than the old "I'll pray for your soul" bit.
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#429467 - 08/18/10 05:24 AM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: S810]
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Being friends with people that are christian is ok in some ways. But you really can't fully express yourself around them. So I would see no point in trying to date a christian or for that matter even go as far as having a relationship with one. As mentioned before and I agree all you ever hear is that they will pray for you.
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#429469 - 08/18/10 05:49 AM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Lordrandom]
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1 - Do I need to be vengeful? I know a lot of the philosophy advocates vengence and such on those who deserve it but for the most part I just don't have it in me to do that, sure I get pissed every once in a while but I can't sustain the killer instinct that some of the things advocated by LeVay would require. Should I just give up now?


How old are you? You seem very young.

Perhaps you didn't deal yet with people, who would truly deserve your vengeance.

I used to be the same lucky and considered myself successful in avoiding wrong people or at least good at dealing with them, until few months ago when I started having more frequent and closer interactions on a business level with a man you wouldn't want to know. I realized, that all 'wrong' people I knew before were nothing in comparison with him.

I won't feed you with details, because it would take me ages to write everything down and they are not important for the topic itself. All I want to say is that such kind of person, once when gets in your way, will eventually 'help' you with exploration of yourself and a part of you that you have "needed" never before.

When one is present in your life, you don't see anything good coming from any of that person's deeds and increasingly, by time you receive informations of wrong character, you'll feel the need to deal with that what's wrong, so the wrong loses its feeling of safety. Also, you see how it effects on you and then how by time you start effecting on others about whom you care, and it's them who suffer from your 'latently' present bad mood, instead of the one who is the cause of problem- it will raise negative feelings.

In nature, I am a person who doesn't like to create unnecessary problems, if I trust that there is a possibility to solve it differently. But there is certain measure to it and of course, I am careful to not let anyone misuse this trait of me. I think that it made me find my new level of a constructive assertiveness.

I am not a fan of vengeful behaviour and nature; I think that it requires too much time of thinking up how to destroy someone instead of enjoying life.
But when you are certain about that you do right, it feels excellently.

Lordrandom, I used to be similar as you in this one trait; I even didn't have reasons to get angry; it was about that vast majority of people who I let closer to me were nice. But I think, that eventually you'll experience that vengeance's taste is sweet when a person which objectively did you a harm will get a lesson.

If that happens, the best is to wash your hands above such people immediately as you find out, or they can cause you yet some unease.

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#429491 - 08/18/10 09:43 AM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Lordrandom]
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Originally Posted By: Lordrandom


2 - My fiance is a Christian. While I do not share her faith (obviously or I wouldn't be here) I want to at least give her the respect that comes with a loving relationship. If I were to consider myself a Satanist would I be insulting her? I don't want to commit to a message that says someone I love is an idiot for believing what she believes



To be blunt, considering oneself a Satanist isn't really the issue. You are either are...or are not. Everything after that is up to you.

ps...I appreciate the tone of your post. If it reflects how you relate in real life, your fiance is fortunate.
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#429492 - 08/18/10 09:49 AM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: S810]
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I always wondered what made people feel silly when by themselves. And then I wonder how they get about to jacking off alone.

Or even just really getting into a fictional movie, for that matter. I guess some people are deathly afraid of surrendering critical thinking, even under knowingly controlled conditions.

Originally Posted By: S810
I have yet to meet a christian who is a practicing christian, to embrace a satanist in terms other than the old "I'll pray for your soul" bit.

I have 2 or 3 close Christian friends, and our differences in religion has never been an issue. One of them in fact conducted my wedding ceremony (secular, of course). I guess that we just accept the fact that we each have our personal reasons for believing what we believe, and mutual respect for being people who can have an objective conversation on philosophy, appreciate ritual, and know how to defend their convictions. I can't think of any Satanic Sins that they really commit, behavior-wise.

Of course, I'm not in a romantic relationship with any of them. That's a situation where religious compatibility is a bigger concern, at least for me.
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#429536 - 08/18/10 02:25 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Lordrandom]
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Because Satanists are born and not made there are certain characteristics within the Satanist that will run contrary to that of a Christian. After all Satan means opposition. So while it is possible to be married to a Christian as a Satanist it is highly likely that there will be characteristic differences. Satanists have an amazing ability for survival so using Lesser Magic is an option to keep the peace. But I suspect that eventually one might say fuck it after a long hard days work. My home is a place of rest. I like to be who I am and do what I want without having to change for someone.

Ultimately it comes down to cost VS reward.

Is she/he worth it to you?
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#429695 - 08/19/10 10:23 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Lordrandom]
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Speaking for Myself, when I read the Satanic Bible, I didn't need to play around with the idea of calling Myself a Satanist. I read it and was overjoyed to find that many of My own thoughts and ideas were reflected in the book. Only You can decide if the same holds true for You.

I have openly and pridefully called Myself a Satanist for years. For the most part I can honestly say that any negative reaction has been insignificant and minimal. Perhaps it is the way that I present both Myself and the topic. I do get people who ask genuine questions, and I answer them openly and honestly. They seem to take joy in learning something new. (One thing I will note is that in identifying Myself as a Satanist, before I joined I would always point out that I was not a member. I also tell people now that I am only a registered member. I ALWAYS direct people to the books and the web site.)

Now to your questions:
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1 - Do I need to be vengeful?


Do you need to be? If someone goes out of their way to wrong or harm you, would you be fine with turning the other cheek? Satanism recognizes that hate is a natural emotion for people. As is stated in TSB if you love everyone it cheapens the meaning of the emotion. Pent-up hatred can lead to many destructive paths for the individual so it would seem healthier to honestly hate. It comes down to the situation in question. Some people are deserving of your love. Give it to them. Some are equally deserving of your hate equally distribute it.


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My fiance is a Christian. While I do not share her faith (obviously or I wouldn't be here) I want to at least give her the respect that comes with a loving relationship. If I were to consider myself a Satanist would I be insulting her?


That would depend on how open minded that she is. Certainly some xtain folks are insulted by Satanism and Satanic dogma. As Doctor Lavey advocated "There's a place for you and a place for me. But the bleeding hearts wouldn't let it be we don't need them anymore." Not all, but a good share of xtains are not happy until they sucker someone else in. Furthermore it is a difference in lifestyle and thought. Generally anything in life that they approach is done so with a blind faith and worship mentality. It doesn't matter what alter they worship at but they need to worship something. It all depends on her and you and how secure you are with the fact that you are both individuals.


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Do I need to do the magic stuff? Magic has never appealed to me


Again the question can only be answered by you and your situations. I would advise keeping an open mind and at least testing it before you make up your mind. Consider that the "magic stuff" makes up half of the book. That is no small portion. Dr. Lavey also talked about it in many other forums. That tells me he took it as a pretty serious part of Satanism.

I hope that this has offered you help with your considerations. May you find what you seek.

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#431113 - 09/04/10 01:58 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: de_Lioncourt]
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Originally Posted By: Bill_M

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I think I am just too literal a person to invest myself in them.

You're not one of those annoying people who talks through an entire movie, criticizing each scene, are you?


No, I just don't see the point when it comes to magic. When I want to do something that will create a result I do something that I know for a matter of fact will create that result. That's why I think magic is only 1/2 than praying. It takes power for the pracitioner but at the end of the day you are still just wishing, instead of acting.
Originally Posted By: Spelled Moon

How old are you? You seem very young.


I'm 20.
Originally Posted By: Dino




Do you need to be? If someone goes out of their way to wrong or harm you, would you be fine with turning the other cheek? Satanism recognizes that hate is a natural emotion for people. As is stated in TSB if you love everyone it cheapens the meaning of the emotion. Pent-up hatred can lead to many destructive paths for the individual so it would seem healthier to honestly hate. It comes down to the situation in question. Some people are deserving of your love. Give it to them. Some are equally deserving of your hate equally distribute it.


I'm not sure how I'd act. There are times when I've felt wrathful towards someone but it always just fizzles out. I would try to defend myself and if wronged I do think I would try to correct that wrong if it mattered to me. I think my question in this comes from never have a sustained need for vengence.

Your post makes sense, I think the best approach for me would be to just see what happens and be open minded to the tools at hand when the time comes.
Thank you for your help everyone. I wanted to wait until I was sure everyone who was going to post did so before I replied.
I think whatever I chose I have to lot to learn from Satanism so I’m definitely going to stick around.
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#431122 - 09/04/10 04:52 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Lordrandom]
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"That's why I think magic is only 1/2 than praying.."

And you arrived at this conclusion how, by practicing Magic for numerous years, as Dr. LaVey did? Dr. LaVey who, as I have stated before, was a practicing Magician, who obtained verifiable, tangible results, who discussed this at length with certain members of the COS who happen to be on this board, who wrote extensively about the subject and provided enough instructions for anyone to follow and be able to do the same?

But here comes you, a 20 year old "expert", issuing opinions about things you absolutely know nothing of, as proven by your ridiculous remark above, arriving at amusing conclusions based on "Well I just think...".

Wonderful.

Thank you for the entertainment.

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#431124 - 09/04/10 05:03 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Phineas]
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Originally Posted By: Phineas
"That's why I think magic is only 1/2 than praying.."
And you arrived at this conclusion how, by practicing Magic for numerous years, as Dr. LaVey did? Dr. LaVey who, as I have stated before, was a practicing Magician, who obtained verifiable, tangible results, who discussed this at length with certain members of the COS who happen to be on this board, who wrote extensively about the subject and provided enough instructions for anyone to follow and be able to do the same?
But here comes you, a 20 year old "expert", issuing opinions about things you absolutely know nothing of, as proven by your ridiculous remark above, arriving at amusing conclusions based on "Well I just think...".

Wonderful.

Thank you for the entertainment.



Indeed, Magister Phineas. I might add that Dr. LaVey didn't preach his findings. He simply advised that one try it for themselves.

LordRandom said:

"When I want to do something that will create a result I do something that I know for a matter of fact will create that result."


Dr. LaVey's sentiments exactly.

I will only finish by saying the emotive casting of our own fishing line is very different from being starving and praying for a fish.
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#431189 - 09/05/10 01:31 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Drake_Bamboozle]
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Originally Posted By: Rev_Strongbone
Originally Posted By: Phineas
"That's why I think magic is only 1/2 than praying.."
And you arrived at this conclusion how, by practicing Magic for numerous years, as Dr. LaVey did? Dr. LaVey who, as I have stated before, was a practicing Magician, who obtained verifiable, tangible results, who discussed this at length with certain members of the COS who happen to be on this board, who wrote extensively about the subject and provided enough instructions for anyone to follow and be able to do the same?
But here comes you, a 20 year old "expert", issuing opinions about things you absolutely know nothing of, as proven by your ridiculous remark above, arriving at amusing conclusions based on "Well I just think...".

Wonderful.

Thank you for the entertainment.



Indeed, Magister Phineas. I might add that Dr. LaVey didn't preach his findings. He simply advised that one try it for themselves.

LordRandom said:

"When I want to do something that will create a result I do something that I know for a matter of fact will create that result."


Dr. LaVey's sentiments exactly.

I will only finish by saying the emotive casting of our own fishing line is very different from being starving and praying for a fish.


I apologise.

I know that I am inexperienced. I don't claim to be an expert nor have I ever claimed to be such.

I knew that some people might not like my opinions but I thought that I would be safe in posting them in a Satanist message board. So my arrogance was in effect an attempt to avoid looking weak which I thought might be worse than causing offence.

I know I was wrong. Instead, in future I will stick to the Satanic principle of only offering my opinion where it is wanted.
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#431220 - 09/05/10 06:54 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Lordrandom]
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When you have the chance, may I suggest a visit to www.churchofsatan.com and reading through the Nine Satanic Sins?

There is nothing wrong with admitting you don't know if you don't know. I have learned A LOT on this message board and if used right can be a wonderful tool.
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#431364 - 09/06/10 09:11 PM Re: Questions regarding Satanism [Re: Lordrandom]
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It doesn't matter to me if you practice magic or not. What irks me quite a bit is how dismissive you are of it without (what seems to be) real knowledge about the subject.

It's funny to me that your are, in a sense, asking strangers for what seems like relationship advice. I'm betting you already know your answer. From my own perspective, I don't care if someone is insulted by me being a Satanist--that is if they find out in the first place--and that spells bad news in a relationship. Last time I checked, Christianity involved convertin' heathens so maybe you could be her little project.

I had dinner with a couple where the husband is Jewish and the wife is Muslim. They have kids, she goes to the synagogue with him (as an obedient Muslim woman should coopdevil) and they get along OK. It's probably not as culturally incorrect as a Shia marrying a Sunni but I'm sure they have their moments. I guess my point here is that if love and family is your primary goal, you sure ain't the first or last person to try this. Personally, I wouldn't try it. Relationships are a lot of work in the first place and why add one more thing to work out?

Besides, there are a lot of Satanic Witches out there and maybe if you worked a bit of magic, you could land one of your own ;-)
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