Though Warlock already answered this one, I as individual member would say few words to this topic.
First: Church of Satan
do not require meetings between members and non-members. It doen not require meetings between members either. If you want to meet Satanists you have to create the contacts yourself.
Second: cause we as Satanists do not practice any kind of evangelist action you should first understand our teachings and prove yourself that you have something to give to our members. You donīt just get something without giving anything back. You have to show you have something worth of meeting you.
Third: cause we do not proselytize people to Satanism we wait persons to find out themself what is it all about in Satanism. Satanists are born, not made so Satanists do not try to convert anybody to became Satanist. Either you are one or then not.
So like CWH already suggested you should first study our teachings and understand them before going on.
I am not spokesperson to CoS or Satanism, so these advices are obviously just my own opinions. I do not speak for Church of Satan
but for myself!