I'm not of the hierarchy or the Church of Satan
administration, but I can tell you with complete certainty that the CoS does NOT disclose the addresses of any of its members, especially to non-members!! It goes without saying that the reason for this is to protect the privacy and confidentiality of CoS members.
If you're interested in meeting CoS members, well, you can start right here on this message board. Also, you can sign up on the Undercroft for free at:www.satannet.com
Moreover, there is an unofficial CoS Facebook group you can request to join:https://www.facebook.com/groups/thechurchofsatan/
Keep in mind that CoS members are under no obligation to communicate with you online, much less meet up with you in person.