Still sCara I will disagree with you here. Humans can enter in emotional situations without their own will. If I get punched I will get angry and retaliate, If I get criticized I will feel bad, and angry. If I see an artwork I like I will appreciate it, and I will most probably want to buy it.
This applies to a greater level also. If I act warm and friendly, most people will like me. If I show up dressed like a dirty homeless loser, everyone will avoid me. And that applies to the girl I want.
If I act the way she likes, and I offer her something she may want, which I have, then she will think about it definetly. And this increases my chances will her and I give her a better choice than the one she has already made. Of course the final decision will be hers, but she will know that she has an option.
Yes, you cannot make people act against their own will, but I can give her a better choice and make her think about it. If she accept, fine by me, if she does not, then I move on to some amazing female friends I have, that will make me feel better anyway. I am way pass the hopeless teenage love thing I used to feel.
Either way, the odds work for me.