Doktor LaVey wrote a short but powerful essay in Satan Speaks titled, A Secret (Well Sort Of). I have discovered that I too share that very secret but find it a natural part of my nature. As a Man I have no need to dominate or talk down to but pleasure the beautiful creatures i.e. Woman who seek that very pleasure. I am sought after because I am unlike the herd and I understand that.

To those who resonate with this secret, do you find it a part of your nature or was it something learned?
�Love is one of the most intense feelings felt by man; another is hate. Forcing yourself to feel indiscriminate love is very unnatural. If you try to love everyone you only lessen your feelings for those who deserve your love. Repressed hatred can lead to many physical and emotional aliments. By learning to release your hatred towards those who deserve it, you cleanse yourself of these malignant emotions and need not take your pent-up hatred out on your loved ones.�
Anton Szandor LaVey, The Satanic Bible