I don't know whether I've been fortunate or NOT, but I've been surrounded by death from a very early age. My grandfather at 5, my best friend at 11, and a slew of others. My best advice, is to just try and deal with it. It helps to cry and release ones anguish, but probably the worst thing, is to focus on it. When it happens you'll be most likely unprepared anyway, but putting too much emphasis on it may only intensify the grief. Hope this helps for the future.
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"Morality" It's a fickle thing, little thing,little thing. Depends on WHO, is your king, IS your king. -Fred A. Padilla-