Seriously, though, I think it's something a woman is drawn to because, no matter how dominant or submissive she may be, it's nice to be taken care of sometimes. To not shoulder it all. Less to do with sex, more to do with strength. Protection.
Definitely more valuable and rare for a top o' the clock woman to find a man who can genuinely fill this need/desire and not just be an overbearing abusive domineering chauvinistic dickhead. Yeh, there's a difference.
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