Knowing one's clock position and the balance factor means everything - of course.

Does this mean all heterosexual men should be as masculine and strong as possible, to the limit of not being overbearing or violent towards women?

Why should a heterosexual man be violent or overbearing towards anyone if he is comfortable in his own skin? Vice verse even?

The essay is the important ingredient. Read it!
�Love is one of the most intense feelings felt by man; another is hate. Forcing yourself to feel indiscriminate love is very unnatural. If you try to love everyone you only lessen your feelings for those who deserve your love. Repressed hatred can lead to many physical and emotional aliments. By learning to release your hatred towards those who deserve it, you cleanse yourself of these malignant emotions and need not take your pent-up hatred out on your loved ones.�
Anton Szandor LaVey, The Satanic Bible