I would speculate that doubting everything that could ever make you happy is a loss of innocence.
A girl can't accept a flower from a guy. That's Heteronormative Cis-Sexist White Male Privileged Euro-Centric power dynamics at work, you see. See?
"My dear Insurgent you're an extremist, intolerant and you have prejudices. That's all."
"I am a fucking Satanist and desire in all of my being to be the Queen of the World if at all possible...."