Despite only ever having a single partner, I have found throughout my pubescent and post-pubescent life that the pleasure of the woman should take precedence. Sure, I want it too, but giving is so much more enjoyable than receiving.
I'm certain it had everything to do with me growing up watching Sue Johanson's "Sunday Night Sex Show" throughout adolescence, but perhaps it is built into my very nature. >_>
"Man can focus his mind to a full, active, purposefully directed awareness of reality - or he can unfocus it and let himself drift in a semiconscious daze..." ~ Ayn Rand