My third side solution to like, everything:
Reversible sterilization of all people at birth.
No unintended pregnancy.
Reverse procedure criteria: Financial security. Reasonably clean criminal record. Prior agreement on legal custody/support issues. Full genetic testing.
Imagine the various long term problems solved? Fiscal, psychological, legal, medical?
Actually this makes a lot of sense.
Funny how a lot of Christians and other guilt-ridden types are so against stem cell research or human cloning, yet have no problem with free, unregulated, "natural" reproduction.
Of course this would be decried as "oppression".
But we can dream.