This is something, though I agree with completely, have trouble with it is in my nature to be (overly) forgiving, and (overly) generous, almost always to my detriment. I am confused as to whether the joy being kind brings me is worth being taken advantage of.
On the same token, though, I am also very vengeful, but usually on the behalf of others, if you fuck with my people, I fuck with your life. I dunno if this makes sense, or if it is right or wrong. if it is wrong what is the remedy?